Introduction
Here at Suited Tutor, we are committed to fostering a safe, supportive, and inclusive environment for our students, parents, tutors, and employees. Domestic abuse can affect anyone, regardless of their background, and we take a zero-tolerance stance on all forms of abuse. We recognise the importance of protecting vulnerable individuals, creating a legally and ethically responsible learning environment, and building trust within our safe community.
If you need immediate support, our contact details can be found here.
Understanding Domestic Abuse
Domestic abuse is defined under the Domestic Abuse Act 2021 as any behavior that is abusive between individuals who are personally connected. This includes:
- Physical or sexual abuse
- Emotional and psychological abuse
- Coercive control (e.g. threats, intimidation, isolation, or financial control)
- Economic abuse (e.g. restricting access to money, employment, or financial independence)
- Digital or online abuse (e.g. monitoring social media, harassment, or sharing private information without consent). You may refer to our Harassment and Anti-Bullying Policy for more details.
Domestic abuse does not only occur in romantic relationships; it can happen between family members, housemates, or dependents. It can also affect children who witness first-hand abusive behaviour.
For more information, visit: Domestic Abuse Act 2021.
Recognising the Signs of Domestic Abuse
Domestic abuse can be difficult to recognise. Here are some indicators:
- Emotional or psychological changes: Increased anxiety, depression, or social withdrawal.
- Physical signs: Unexplained injuries, frequent absences, or signs of distress.
- Financial control: Sudden financial struggles or restrictions.
- Behavioural changes: Fear of speaking openly, unusual secrecy, or avoiding certain topics.
- Constant checking-in: Being overly worried about contacting someone or following strict schedules.
If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, seeking help is crucial.
What to Do if You Are Experiencing Domestic Abuse
We would encourage anyone affected to embrace the following steps:
Things to Think About
- Telling Someone – Confiding in someone you trust is the first step toward getting help.
- Confidentiality Code – Any reports of domestic abuse will be handled discreetly and with sensitivity.
- Safety at Work – Suited Tutor provides a safe, flexible, and supportive environment for employees, tutors, and students. If you need adjustments to your working or learning conditions, we will support you. You can contact us through the following channels.
- Counseling Support – Free, confidential support is available through professional services, charities, and specialist organisations, such as the National Centre for Domestic Violence.
- Work Adjustments – We provide flexible working arrangements, additional security measures, and workplace support for those affected by domestic abuse.
- Wellbeing Action Plans – We have a Mental Health Policy in place to support anyone experiencing difficulties. More details can be found here.
Suited Tutor does not tolerate domestic abuse in any shape or form. We also take a firm stance against perpetrators, and any misconduct will not be condoned.
For confidential help, you may contact the Respect Helpline at 0808 802 4040.
How to Help Someone Else
If you suspect someone is experiencing domestic abuse, you can help by:
- Using the Bright Sky App – A free app that provides information and support. Download or visit the following website.
- Contacting the National Domestic Abuse Helpline – Available 24/7 for confidential support at 0808 2000 247. The website link can be found here.
- Encouraging professional help – You can encourage fellow peer members or advise them to reach out to a professional service or charity.
- Listening without judgment – You can lend to fellow peer members your ears, and let them know that they are not alone and that support is available.
Additional Resources and Support
There are many charities and specialist support groups offering assistance. Here are some that you might find helpful:
- National Domestic Abuse Helpline – 0808 2000 247 (24 hours a day)
- Women’s Aid – working together against domestic abuse until women and children are safe
- Bright Sky App & Website – is designed for anyone experiencing domestic abuse, or anyone who is worried about a friend, family member, or colleague.
- National Centre for Domestic Violence – A free, fast emergency injunction service to those at risk of all forms of domestic abuse regardless of their financial situation, ethnicity, gender or sexuality.
- Retail Trust - providing essential information, guidance for managers, and advocating for yourself as a neurodivergent person, for your health and well-being.
- Men’s Advice Line – 0808 801 0327 (the helpline for male victims of domestic abuse).
- Mankind - 01823 334244 (helping men escape domestic abuse).
- Galop (LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Support) – 0800 999 5428
- The Forced Marriage Unit – 0207 008 0151 (offering information and support to those who fear they will be forced into marriage and can talk with them about their options).
- Suzy Lamplugh Trust – supporting victims of violence and aggression including stalking and harassment, as well as campaigning for better protections for victims in policy and law.
- Respect Helpline – 0808 802 4040 (providing help for domestic abuse perpetrators who want to change)
- Hestia Respond to Abuse Helpline – resource for employers to advise them on how to approach disclosures of domestic abuse by their employees, particularly in light of Covid-19, and to triage such employees into the appropriate local specialist domestic abuse services.
- CrimeStoppers – 0800 555 111 (gives people the power to speak up to stop crime 100% anonymously).
Final Words
We are committed to standing against domestic abuse in all its forms. Whether you are personally affected or know someone else who is, support is always available within arm's reach. Please do not hesitate to reach out, and we would like to earnestly let you know that you are not alone.
For any further information, you can always contact our team directly.
Last updated: April 18th, 2025
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